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A recent BBC investigation has highlighted concerns about individuals allegedly advising migrants to make false claims of domestic abuse as part of asylum applications. Any allegation of
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Over £22,000 was raised as Team Oasis took on chilly temperatures at Leeds Castle
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By Polly Wooding – Fundraising Assistant at Oasis Last week, when I sat down with my husband to watch Louis Theroux’s newest documentary, Inside the Manosphere, I
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We’re delighted to share that, from April 2026, the BeYou Project, a much‑needed programme supporting young LGBTQIA+ people, will be joining Oasis Domestic Abuse Service. BeYou has long provided safe, inclusive spaces for young
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Take on an Ultra Challenge in 2026 for Oasis - walk, run or jog some amazing landscapes, from 5km-106km
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Written by Oasis supporter and speaker at the event, Amanda Nicholls of HR Solve It: “I had the absolute pleasure of presenting at a brilliant session organised
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By Danielle Georgiou, Domestic Abuse Partnership Specialist at Oasis The disappointing outcome in the trial of Sean ‘Diddy’ Combes is another all-too-common narrative of an abusive, power-hungry
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For the second consecutive year, more people have died by suicide after experiencing domestic abuse than have been killed by their abusive partners. In the year to
In light of the recent Supreme Court ruling, which ruled that the legal definition of a woman, according to the Equality Act 2010, is based on biological
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Is there anything left to say about Netflix’s new drama Adolescence? Stephen Graham’s harrowing series exploring the toxic online incel culture and its devastating impact on young
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Webinar provides an opportunity to share knowledge and best practice.
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90th birthday. 90 miles. 9 days.
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Disabled women in the UK are more than twice as likely to experience domestic abuse compared to women who aren’t disabled. The abuse they face usually lasts
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“Errors in judgement persist with terrible consequences for child and adult victims”, CAFCASS Domestic Abuse Practice Policy 2024 Domestic abuse remains a significant concern in family court
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Earlier this month supporters and volunteers gathered together at the Turner Contemporary in Margate to mark the 30th anniversary of Oasis. Our Head of Income and Engagement, Jo
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Oasis Domestic Abuse Service welcomes the Government’s announcement to embed domestic abuse specialists within 999 control rooms across the UK. This is an important step towards improving
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Recently I took myself for my first ever solo cinema trip, so I thought what better film than the one that is raising awareness and conversations around
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Have you ever wondered why it’s so hard to leave an abusive relationship? The cycle of abuse, also known as the cycle of violence, reveals patterns of
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Yesterday we welcomed Kent’s High Sheriff, Dr Gill Fargher, to Medway Maritime Hospital, where she met with our two domestic violence advisors who are located within the
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At the end of July, on a particularly hot and sunny Sunday, a small team from Oasis took part in Margate’s inaugural ‘The Most Wuthering Heights Day
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Pride season is in full swing, and Oasis was honoured to march in the Margate Pride parade last weekend. The atmosphere was electric as hundreds of people
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The Maiden Tower, Leeds Castle. A night under the stars, transforming futures for survivors of abuse.
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July 14th marks National Honour Based Abuse (HBA) Awareness Day, a time to remember Shafilea Ahmed, a 17-year-old British-Pakistani girl who was tragically murdered by her parents
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Marking a significant step forward in addressing domestic abuse through collaborative efforts...
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We are delighted to announce that our Christmas Wishes for a Brighter Future appeal in December 2023 raised a fantastic £6,381. The campaign, which ran throughout the
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Recovering Together is our pioneering domestic abuse trauma healing programme for families. When a family experiences domestic abuse, it is traumatic, for everyone. Children do not witness
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Banksy’s artwork ‘Valentine’s Day Mascara’ has been unveiled at its new home at Dreamland Margate. The artwork has been moved from its original location, on the side
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Banksy’s Valentine’s Day artwork in Margate threw Oasis and other vital services supporting those affected by domestic abuse into the spotlight. The artwork has inspired many conversations
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It’s not every day that a Banksy artwork appears in your local community, but that’s what has happened this week in Margate. On one of the most
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We are delighted to share that we have received a social investment loan of £4.1 million from Social and Sustainable Capital (SASC) for us to enhance our
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The coercive, controlling behaviour of Alina’s partner was so extensive that it was hard to see the red flags until taking part in an Oasis Programme helped
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Domestic Abuse can happen to anyone. Male victims don’t always know that what they are experiencing is abuse and often suffer in silence. For some, they are
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Domestic Abuse doesn’t just affect people. All too often pets become part of the abusive tactics used by perpetrators, as a prime means to coerce and control.
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The “rough sex” defence was outlawed on Monday 6 July 2020 in England and Wales. The amendment forms part of the new Domestic Abuse Bill, which is
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Jenny* never imagined she would find herself in an abusive relationship. But when she met a charming stranger on a train journey to Wales, her life changed
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The popular Oasis Golf Day returns on Friday 18th September 2026 at the North Foreland Golf Course.
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Last December, life felt like it had reached its darkest point for Emma*, a 50-year-old woman who had been in an abusive marriage for many years. After
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By Hannah St George Trigger warning: this article mentions miscarriage, sexual violence and male violence against women and girls. 30% of all domestic abuse cases begin when survivors are pregnant – and risks can increase even further after birth. At Oasis,
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By Hannah St George Trigger warning: This article discusses domestic abuse, self-harm, suicide, and substance misuse. Pride season may be over, but domestic abuse in LGBTQ+ relationships
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Claire was just 15 when she met the man that would become her husband of 29 years. Back then their relationship was full of promise and adventure
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As many people enjoy celebrating the festive period, the abuse experienced by some families in Kent and Medway will increase. The added pressure of more time together,
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The sixth annual Oasis Golf Day at North Foreland Golf Club in Broadstairs raised a fantastic £6,400. The event, held on Friday 8th September, a gloriously sunny
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We are delighted to welcome our new CEO Claire Williams to Oasis Domestic Abuse Service. Claire has a significant history of working for Kent and Medway communities,
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12-year-old Lottie* moved into our refuge with her Mum in early 2022, having fled the domestic abuse she’d experienced for most of her young life. She was
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If coming to refuge is difficult for adults, it can be even more confusing for children who may not fully understand why they have had to leave
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In episode 5 of the Oasis podcast, ‘Perspectives: Uncovering Domestic Abuse’, our young people’s mentor Jo talks with teenager Hanna, a young woman who we’ve supported through
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For the Power of Women festival 2022 celebrating International Women’s Day, our CEO Deb was invited to speak at the opening event. The theme is ‘Reclaim and
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In episode 4 of the Oasis podcast, ‘Perspectives: Uncovering Domestic Abuse’, our team member Iona talks with Sarah Wydall and Elize Freeman from Dewis Choice – the
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In episode 3 of the Oasis Perspectives podcast, team member Jennie speaks with expert Luke Martin about victims and perpetrators of Domestic Abuse, and how he and
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Welcome to episode 2 of the Oasis podcast, ‘Perspectives: Uncovering Domestic Abuse’. In this series of interviews, we get under the umbrella term ‘domestic abuse’. We speak
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For #MentalHealthAwarenessWeek we caught up with Oasis’s Domestic Abuse trauma specialist counsellor Diane May about her work and the seminal work of Bessel Van Der Kolk and
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Oasis Perspectives Welcome to episode 1 of the Oasis podcast, ‘Perspectives: uncovering Domestic Abuse’. In this series of interviews, we get under the umbrella term ‘domestic abuse’.
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For Deaf Awareness Week we spoke with SignHealth, the deaf health charity that Oasis regularly connects with, to hear more about their specialist #DomesticAbuse service for survivors
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Oasis volunteer Helen reflects on her experience helping someone affected by domestic abuse in the 1970s and what’s changed for people today. During my winter break, I
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Oasis and Choices Domestic Abuse Services have come together as one organisation, creating an even stronger service across East Kent, Medway and North Kent. The sister organisations
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CEO Deb reflects on the destructive nature of the chronic avoidance of accountability Valentine’s is upon us. At Oasis, we can’t help but reflect on this day
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In 2020, we are not only facing a global crisis caused by the Coronavirus pandemic, but we continue to face a global issue when it comes to
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We are delighted to announce that Margate-based Counter Editions are producing a three-colour lithograph print by artist Tracey Emin, who grew up in the seaside town and
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Our Early Intervention & Prevention team has found ways to support children and young people remotely, from drawing pictures together on video calls related to feelings being
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“That was really tough hearing Mum like that, she was crying, she’d had chunks of her hair pulled out”. Children do not ‘witness’ domestic abuse, they experience
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A third of domestic abuse starts or intensifies during pregnancy. This is why we provide refuge for those who need safety at the most vulnerable of times.
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When Oasis opened its doors in 1994, two women a week were being murdered as a result of domestic abuse. This figure remains the same and our
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Last year Oasis was 25 years old. Our Fundraising Manager Loukia Michael looks at the history of refuges for women, our important work and why this milestone
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Starting a new life isn’t easy. Creating a safe life is even harder when you’re fleeing abuse. Our refuge is vital for building a safer future for
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At Oasis one of the services we provide is Refuge accommodation for women and children who have had to flee their homes for their own safety. They
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Rachel was referred into the Oasis Court support (IDVA) service for help around a court case involving her ex-partner. In her first call she said that her
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I met my ex-partner through a friend. We dated for 2 years and everything was fine. We finally decided to move in together and I shortly fell
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At Oasis, our core aim is to help survivors rebuild their lives after abuse. The road to recovery can be long but through support and our holistic
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Sara came to stay at the Oasis Refuge seven years ago, with her three young children. During this time she became very involved in the daily life
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I lived in the Oasis refuge at Christmas a couple of years ago. It was a really hard time for me, I had moved away from family
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My husband used to be very controlling and manipulative. He would over dose and say he was going to kill himself. He would accuse me of affairs,
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At Oasis we don’t receive any statutory funding for our work with children and young people – and yet we know that this work is essential if
