Healthy Relationships Programmes for Schools | Oasis Domestic Abuse Service

Oasis in Schools

Helping young people understand healthy relationships

Children and young people are growing up in a world where one in four women and one in six men will experience domestic abuse in their lifetime. Many are already living with it at home and are starting to experience it among their peers, with cases of abuse growing faster in teenagers than any other age group.

Schools are uniquely placed to make a difference, not just by recognising the signs, but by helping young people build the knowledge, language, and confidence to understand what healthy relationships look and feel like.

When children learn what healthy love looks like, and that abuse is never their fault, they carry that knowledge into their friendships, their first relationships and, eventually, their own families.​

When staff feel confident naming domestic abuse and knowing what to do, children are more likely to be believed, heard and protected when they speak up.

We work with primary and secondary schools across Kent and Medway, delivering age-appropriate assemblies, interactive workshops, and staff training – all developed by specialists and grounded in real experience.

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What we offer

What is Domestic Abuse?

20 minutes | KS1, KS2 and KS3 | Free to schools

Designed to inspire curiosity, build confidence and support key curriculum themes our age-appropriate assembly introduces the topic of domestic abuse in a sensitive and accessible way, using discussion and creative activities to create memorable experiences that resonate with pupils and reinforce positive messages. It covers:

  • healthy relationships
  • what domestic abuse is – including the different forms it can take
  • feeling safe and personal boundaries
  • where to get help

Is My Relationship Healthy?

1 hour | Years 10, 11 and Sixth Form

An interactive session designed to give older students the tools to recognise healthy and unhealthy relationship dynamics — in their own lives and those of people around them.

Topics include:

  • What makes a relationship healthy, and what doesn’t
  • Respect, boundaries, and consent
  • Recognising red flags and coercive behaviour
  • How to support a friend, and where to go for help

This workshop is delivered in exchange for a fundraising pledge of £250 per school. Every pound raised goes directly back into our work with young people and families across Kent and Medway.

Just So You Know

1 hour | KS1 and KS2

A warm, engaging session that introduces younger children to the concepts of consent, personal boundaries, and emotions in a completely age-appropriate way. Children explore what it means to respect themselves and others, how to recognise when something doesn’t feel right, and who they can talk to if they’re worried.

This workshop is delivered in exchange for a fundraising pledge of £250 per school, helping us continue delivering this vital early-intervention work.

Recognising and Supporting Children Affected by Domestic Abuse

Bespoke | Aligned with the Ofsted framework

Delivered by our specialists, this training gives teachers and school staff the knowledge and confidence to recognise when a child may be living with domestic abuse, respond sensitively and appropriately, and understand the right pathways to specialist support for children and families.

Pricing is tailored to your school’s needs and the format of delivery. Get in touch to discuss what would work best for you.

Whether you’d like Oasis to deliver an assembly, run a workshop, or provide training in your school, we’d love to hear from you. Please email:

schools@oasisdaservice.org

We’ll get back to you to talk through what would work best for your school.

School is often the safest place for a child to talk about what is happening at home.