How your donations help

Many families arrive at the refuge with only the clothes on their back, when they flee, families often have to leave behind daily essentials along with their most treasured possessions, and children often have to leave behind all of their toys.

When families are ready to move into their new homes after living in the refuge, they have to start from scratch.

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  • £2 gives a woman and her children a loaf of bread and a pint of milk when they arrive at the refuge
  • £5 gives a supply of toiletries to get them through their first week
  • £10 gives a set of pyjamas and underwear for the children and women that come to us with nothing
  • £15 gives essentials such as plates and pans for a homeless family resettling from the refuge
  • £20 gives bed linen for a family who are moving on to the next stage in their life
  • £30 provides an hour of counselling for a child or mother to help deal with the pain of their trauma

To help people affected by abuse and violence today you can:

You can also text to donate - text the code “ODAS12 £5”, or any amount you would like to give in whole pounds, to 70070.  

Cheques should be made payable to Oasis Domestic Abuse Service and can be sent to: 

PO Box 174

Arrange a Regular Gift 


Supporting Oasis with a regular gift is one of the best ways you can help us achieve long-term goals. Your money helps us to support victims of abuse and helps them build a better future.

It is really simple to set up a regular monthly or yearly donation. For you, they’re easy to set up and manage, so you’re always in control of your donations. For us, they make it easier to plan for the long term and help reduce admin costs, so more of your money makes it to the front line.

To do this you can head to our just giving page via the button below. 

Or if you’d prefer you can download this Monthly Sign up Form and send it back to us at

PO Box 174
CT9 4GA 

Don’t forget to Gift Aid it to make the most of your donation!

Opt into Gift Aid and donate at least 25% more to Oasis at no extra cost to you!

Gift Aid is one of the simplest and most effective ways for UK taxpayers to give money to charity. It is a scheme introduced by HMRC which allows us to increase the value of your donation by at least 25% at no additional cost to you! For example, if you give us £5 a month, we can claim an extra £1.25, making your gift worth £6.25 a month!

To Gift Aid a donation, simply download and print a Gift Aid Declaration form and send it to: Claire Fenley, Oasis Domestic Abuse Service, PO Box 174, Margate, Kent, CT9 4GA or email it to

Payroll Giving

Payroll Giving is a flexible scheme which allows anyone who pays UK income tax to give regularly and on a tax free basis to the charity of their choice.

Payroll Giving is one of the most tax-effective methods of giving to charity. Donations are deducted before tax so each £1.00 you give will only cost you 80p, or 60p if you're a higher rate tax payer.

How it works

This table shows how giving through your salary each month can really add up for the charity:


Talk to your payroll department to see if you can contribute to charity via GAYE and HMRC will meet part of your donation. Visit or to find out more. 

Leaving a Legacy

By remembering Oasis in your will you can help secure a future in which women and children can live in safety – free from fear.

How do I leave a gift to Oasis in my will?

Have a look at our step-by-step guide to leaving a legacy to Oasis.

If you would like to add a gift to Oasis to an existing will, you can do so easily by using a codicil. A codicil is a supplement that allows additions or changes to be made to a will.

Please consult a professional when making a codicil. You can find a solicitor in your area through the Law Society or by calling 020 7242 1222.

If you'd like help or advice contact us.

What should I do after including Oasis in my will?

Notifying us of your gift will enable us to thank you and keep you updated on our work.  

For information on making or updating a will please visit or

Donate in memory

Making a donation in a loved one’s memory is one way of celebrating their life – by contributing to a cause that makes a valuable difference to people in crisis. You can pay tribute to the memory of someone special by making a donation, holding a collection at the funeral, or setting up a justgiving page in their memory.

If you need any support with this you can contact us at

Online Shopping

It is really easy to support Oasis Domestic Abuse Service through your own online shopping. There are a number of ways that you can do this.


You can "favourite", donate and sell for Oasis Domestic Abuse Service on eBay – by saving us as a favourite you can have a look at what we sell from our charity shop and it will give you the option to donate as you buy or sell something through eBay. 

Give as you Live

Give as you Live is a shopping website that donates money to your chosen charity at no extra cost to you. There are over 3000 stores to choose from and by installing the Shopping Bar you can raise fund for us to support those in need in your local community with very little effort.

Amazon Wish List

Women and children who have been forced to leave their home arrive at the refuge with very little; our refuge is always in need of essentials. Our Amazon Wish List is a list of the items that we need – from toiletries to kitchen items. You can send the refuge items that will make a difference and help Oasis save money to put towards rebuilding lives.


Our Ethical Fundraising Commitment

Oasis is committed to fundraising in a way that is open, honest and responsible. Read our Ethical Fundraising Statement here.

 Oasis is registered with the Fundraising Regulator and adheres to the standards for fundraising set out in the  Code of Fundraising Practice.

Oasis is registered with the Fundraising Regulator and adheres to the standards for fundraising set out in the Code of Fundraising Practice.